The One Habit That Changed My Life in Just 10 Minutes a Day

A simple 10 minute daily habit that transformed my life and mindset.

Duane Michael
6 min readOct 13, 2024
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There was a period in my life when everything seemed overwhelming. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t escape the feeling of being behind, like if I was constantly chasing something I’d never catch.

My thoughts rushed from one thing to the next, and I battled to find tranquility within the commotion. I want change, but every option I considered appeared too large, too frightening, or took more time than I had.

Then something happened. I discovered a simple practice that takes only 10 minutes every day, and things began to change. It was simple, but it made a big difference in my life, and now I’d want to share it with you.

Have you ever felt like life’s rushing past you, and no matter how hard you try, things never really slow down? Yeah, me too. I used to believe that transforming my life would require grand changes — overhauling my daily routine, taking big steps, and spending tons of hours. But one habit shattered that myth, and surprisingly, it only took 10 minutes a day.

This small action, which I never thought would be so impactful, transformed my entire mindset and how I approach my days. Let me share how just 10 minutes, consistently, turned into the most important habit of my life.

The realization

There’s this common belief: massive change demands massive action. We’ve all heard people say you must grind endlessly if you want something big. So, naturally, that’s how I approached things. I’d take on too much, then burn out in a few weeks. It wasn’t working. I realized something had to change when life started to feel too chaotic.

I didn’t know what this change would look like, but I knew it had to be sustainable. And then I stumbled upon this one simple habit — mindfulness.

Mindfulness was the game changer

Hold up. Before you start rolling your eyes because you think I’m going to preach meditation or zen yoga, please hear me out. Mindfulness isn’t as mysterious as it sounds. It is simply being aware of what is happening in the present moment.

Most of us, including me, live life on autopilot.

We’re worrying about the future, agonizing over the past, or simply zoning out. We rarely focus on the now.

When I initially learned about mindfulness, I wasn’t sure it would work. Ten minutes of presence? Is that it? How can something so easy provide any genuine benefit?

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I started small: My first 10 minutes

One day, feeling a bit overwhelmed, I decided to give it a shot. I set a timer for ten minutes and told myself I’d be present during that time. No phone. No distractions. Just me, focusing on my breath and what was around me.

At first, it felt weird. My brain didn’t want to quiet down, and I kept thinking about all the things I needed to do after. But I stayed with it.

Slowly, after a few days of this routine, those ten minutes started to feel… nice.

I began noticing my thoughts, my feelings, and even small things around me like the sounds of birds outside or how warm the sunlight felt through the window.

Why 10 minutes?

You might wonder, why only 10 minutes? Shouldn’t something this life-changing demand more time? Here’s the beauty of it: it doesn’t.

Ten minutes is enough to slow down your racing thoughts, ground yourself, and reconnect with what’s important. Plus, it’s short enough that you can easily fit it into your day — whether in the morning, on a break, or before bed.

Doing this small thing every day felt manageable, even when life got crazy. And honestly, that consistency? That’s what made it work.

The benefits I didn’t expect

So, what actually changed? A lot, honestly. Here are just a few of the surprising benefits I noticed after sticking with it:

  1. Mental Clarity
    Prior to establishing this habit, my thoughts was frequently disorganized. I’d be doing one thing while thinking about twenty others, and none of them would receive my complete concentration. However, after only a few weeks of mindfulness, I began to feel more clear-headed. I was able to focus better, and chores did not appear as overwhelming. It was as if my head had space to breathe.
  2. Less Stress
    I had no idea how much time I wasted fretting until I started practicing mindfulness. The continual cycle of “what if” or “I should’ve done this” began to slow down. Instead of concentrating on what was wrong, I learned to let go and live in the present moment. Stress began to loosen its grip on me.
  3. Better Sleep
    Do you ever have those evenings when your head hits the pillow but your mind refuses to stop? Yes, me too. Mindfulness helped with this. My thoughts were more structured, therefore falling asleep became easy. Those ten minutes constituted a kind of mental reset before bedtime, allowing me to fall asleep more quickly.
  4. Improved Relationships
    Surprisingly, being more present in my own life helped me connect better with others. I stopped half-listening and began to have more genuine conversations. People sensed that I was actually present with them, which strengthened my connections in unanticipated ways.

How to start your own 10 minute habit

If you’re wondering how to begin, it’s super simple. You don’t need anything fancy. You can start right now. Here’s how I did it, and how you can, too:

  1. Set a Timer
    Ten minutes. That is it. If you like, you can start with five minutes and gradually increase. The key is consistency, not time.
  2. Find a Quiet Spot
    You do not need a completely silent space or a meditation cushion. Simply select an area where you will not be interrupted. I usually do it while sitting on my bed or at the kitchen table.
  3. Focus on Your Breath
    This part is simple. Simply pay attention to your breath. You don’t need to manage it; simply notice it. Feel it while inhaling and exhaling. When your thoughts wander, gently bring them back to your breathing. It’s very normal for thoughts to arise. The goal is to continuously refocusing your attention without becoming frustrated.
  4. Notice Your Surroundings
    After a few sessions of breath attention, begin widening your awareness. Listen to sounds, experience sensations on your skin, and consider how your body feels against the chair or the ground. Mindfulness teaches self-awareness and presence in the world.

Why this habit works so well

What shocked me the most was how much this habit influenced everything else. It wasn’t only the ten minutes that counted. It had a rippling effect throughout my day.

When you spend some time being mindful, you will notice yourself more often when you are not present. Instead of zoning out during a meeting or allowing tension to build up, you recognize it early and can take a break to refocus. It helps you become more conscious of your reactions, feelings, and even your decisions.

What about this ripple effect? It is what transforms your life.

Final thoughts

In a world where we are constantly pushed in a thousand directions, adopting a practice that helps you center yourself is invaluable. Mindfulness’s effectiveness stems from its simplicity rather than its complexity or difficulty. You don’t need to purchase any sophisticated equipment or devote hours of your time. Only a few minutes every day spent to being present can genuinely transform everything.

I never anticipated such a minor event to have such a significant impact on my life, but here I am, months later, feeling more grounded and connected than ever. If you’re looking for a way to slow down the frenzy of life, start with 10 minutes. It isn’t much, but believe me, it’s enough.

This habit changed my life, and it might just do the same for you.

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Duane Michael
Duane Michael

Written by Duane Michael

I really enjoy writing fictional horror stories. Follow me out at Spine Chilling Stories. 😊

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